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“So sorry again condolences to Pam's Husband ..her Mom & Sister .. I was one of Pam's good friends from Brien McMahon..... We hung out quite a bit...Read More »
1 of 26 | Posted by: Glen Mones - Trumbull, CT

“Pamela rest in peace my friend. I'll always have fond memories of us growing up together Melinda Heffron Mahon ”
2 of 26 | Posted by: Melinda Heffron - Bridgeport, CT

“My heart goes out to Scott and Pam's family. Pam's smile and charm would light up a room. Peace and love to you all. ”
3 of 26 | Posted by: Pete DeLeo - Milford

“Rest in peace, my old dear friend. Robin Ryan Bartoli ”
4 of 26 | Posted by: Robin Ryan Bartoli - Danbury, CT

“Dear Michelle, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May Pam's memory be eternal. With deepest sympathy, Helen ”
5 of 26 | Posted by: Helen Stamatiadis - Bethel, CT

“Rest in Peace ”
6 of 26 | Posted by: Joe Chariott - Norwalk, RI


7 of 26 | Posted by: Carol Pough - Shelton, CT

“A loss of a beautiful girl with a kind personality to all who met her. My prayers of comfort are with the Maestri and Howes families and Pam's...Read More »
8 of 26 | Posted by: Jane Ginter Russo - Milford, CT

“To Pam's familyShe was such a wonderful person. I enjoyed talking to her and visiting her shop. She was always so joyful and witty! I will always...Read More »
9 of 26 | Posted by: Toni - Summerville, SC

“Aunt Pat, Michelle and Scott,I was devastated to hear that Pam had passed away. I remember playing with her at your yellow house. She was fun and...Read More »
10 of 26 | Posted by: Diane (Conlon) Rohde - Wilton, CT

“My sincere condolences to Mrs. Patricia Maestri, Michelle and Scott Howes. May God be with you all today and always. ”
11 of 26 | Posted by: Bryan Moniz - Port Saint Lucie, FL

“May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always. ”
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13 of 26 | Posted by: CE Edwards

“Scott, Pat, Michele and family,My heart goes out to you all. I am writingthis with a heavy heart and in disbeliefover the loss of Pam. I used to work...Read More »
14 of 26 | Posted by: JoAnn Grammatico - Bridgeport, CT

“Patty, Scott & Family, I am deeply saddened to hear of Pam's passing, Pam was a special person, and will always be remembered, she was such a...Read More »
15 of 26 | Posted by: Sandy Perrault - Stratford, CT

“I am so sorry to hear Pam passed away. I have very fond memories working with her at Comp-U-Card years ago. We had so much fun, going out to lunch,...Read More »
16 of 26 | Posted by: Heather McFadden - Stamford, CT

“Michele and family. We are devastated for you and this great loss. Please know we are here for you now and in the difficult days ahead.Susan Jones...Read More »
17 of 26 | Posted by: Susan Jones - Darien, CT

“Pam was a good friend of my mothers. she was very kind and beautiful, inside and out. my condolences to her family. May she rest in peace. ”
18 of 26 | Posted by: Michelle Russo - Stamford, CT

“Jeffrey Mahon ”
19 of 26 | Posted by: Jeffrey mahon - Stratford, CT

“Thinking of the entire family at this sad time. Sending prayers. Rest in Peace. ”
20 of 26 | Posted by: Norwalk, CT

“PattyThoughts and prayers for you and your family. ”
21 of 26 | Posted by: Michelle and Patrick Bike - CT

“Condolences to Pam's family & husband ..Pam you will Be missed! You were a Bright light in our lives & to everyone who knew you. Untill we meet again...Read More »
22 of 26 | Posted by: Glen Mones - Trumbull, CT

“Condolences going out to Pam's mom and sister& husband.. and all relatives and Friends....I was Pam's good friend through high School & spent a lot...Read More »
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25 of 26 | Posted by: Joe - Norwalk, CT

“My heart goes out to her husband and family.Words can not even touch just how bad I feel when I heard about her passing. She was a very loving kind...Read More »
26 of 26 | Posted by: Joe Chariott - Norwalk, CT


Pamela Ann Maestri-Howes of Easton, CT passed away on Sunday, November 10, 2019. It was sudden and has left all who knew her in shock.

Pamela was born in Norwalk on November 6, 1960 to Patricia Mockler Maestri of Norwalk and the late Frederick Maestri. She attended local schools and worked at a few retail and office jobs. Her true desire was to have her own business and be her own boss. She made it happen by the age of 20.

Pam's grandmother had a store for rent in South Norwalk, and Pam decided to rent it and start a business there. But what? After many ideas and suggestions, the final decision was a consignment shop. Thus the beginning of Shop A Second Consignments which she opened just before her 21st birthday in 1981. At one time three stores were in operation: Norwalk, Stamford and Westport. In 2017, after 36 years, Pam closed her final store in Stamford to the disappointment of many customers and friends.

Pam had many interests. She loved animals. At one time she owned and fed six goats, 12 (or more) cats, the resident crow family, birds, squirrels, chipmunks, wild turkeys and others. She loved exotic cars, and from age 16 to the present, she owned many. She had great interest in real estate, and whatever was for sale or rent in the area she knew about.

She loved shopping for clothes and had an extensive collection for any occasion. She loved her home in Easton with Scott and helped to make it beautiful. She could charm a room with her beautiful smile, vibrant personality, jokes, quips and puns. She made everyone laugh.

Pam gave time to volunteer at the Easton Senior Center and the Carousel Thrift Shop in Southport where she made many friends.

Besides her mother, Pam is survived by her husband Scott W. Howes; a sister Michele Maestri Murphy of Norwalk, nephews Evan and Ian Murphy, nieces Elizabeth Murphy and Angelica Rivera all of Norwalk; a brother and sister-in-law Mark and Karen Howes and niece and nephew Kimberly and Jeffrey Howes of Nunday, NY and many cousins in the area.

A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday November 23, 2019 at 10:00 AM at Union Memorial Congregation Church, 58 Church Street, Stamford (Glenbrook), CT.

In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations be made to an animal rescue center of their choice or to the American Heart Association.

Rest well, my dear child, until we meet again, P.M.